Thursday, December 10, 2009

Been Busy

It's been hard keeping up with my countless blogs, my little guy, and the endless pursuits of building more and more sites. I am constantly using Market Samurai trying to find micro niches as well as building a network of blogs. If you haven't used Market Samurai before then you're missing out, it's one of the very few products that works very well for what it does. Finding these niches takes a whole lot of time and it sort of disconnects you from the rest of the world. This has been my full time job, other than doing some SEO for a few other websites. I now have perhaps 10 new micro niche websites with a goal of 100 active websites.

I have also been spending as much time as possible reviewing other blogs, sites, and reading marketing and SEO forums. I immerse myself in thought, and constantly delve into self-exploration. I got a new great book, "The Gift of ADD". I have long since known of my proclivity for the disposition. In fact there is no doubt. Yet, especially in this day and age, it can be a great asset to have. I know I do not think like most folks out there, and am grateful and hindered at the same time. My mindset gives me the ability to quickly access the essence (that's the best word I can think of) of a wide range of disciplines, knowledge, and experiences to put pieces of the puzzle together, although not always in the proper places. But again, what are the proper places. There are no proper places, only proper mind sets. And the only proper mind set in my opinion, is one that is actively participating in life, period.

This is one of the most powerful and completely unrealized gifts of being a human. "What I make is what I am". I know most folks give lip service to this concept, yet the greater majority of people do not fully, and thoroughly utilize, understand and put into practice this most incredible power we all possess. We create, what we want to create. There is only one master in this game and it's the "I". If you don't believe that, than you live that most common way. There are no victims, no short comings, no gifts, only opportunities to expand and unfold; expand awareness, and unfold potential. You want a meaning to life that is it. We are here to expand our awareness. The great unfolding and contraction. Right now we are in the period of the great expansion. There is no greater joy in this world than cultivating your awareness.

Being a warrior, artist in the mindscape is not an easy task by any stretch of the imagination. In fact it is the absolute most difficult challenge facing mankind. One first has to have the will to grab the reigns and the personal power to do so. It is sort of an awakening, a great realization if you will. From there it takes an on going inner and outer self exploration on a most constant basis. One needs to take on the almost overwhelming task of de-constructing the web of influence that has conditioned his mindset in the first place. It's very hard for people to do this because it means for them to perhaps contradict the knowledge imparted from the ones they love and respect. Keep in mind, that they too have suffered from the same web of influences, and that all webs of influence are interconnected, interrelated, and interactive. From birth we are blessed and cursed with our web of influence, your web of influence are factors of the people, places, institutions, etc that all exert their "mindset", frames of reference, and experiences upon us from birth. Your web of influence commonly consists of fathers, mothers, sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, grandparents, other relatives, religious institutions, teachers, the places you spend most of your time, and the media you watch. All of these factors make up a web that is interconnected, interrelated, and interactive; they all build upon each other creating a strong cohesion of influence. It relates directly to the astounding principle of compounding interest and to the concept of secondary and higher order effects. Patterns emerge that the mind cross-references building a stronger and more static mindset. When you aren't aware of such forces, these influences will subconsciously bind you to beliefs that aren't necessarily your own, but of your web of influence. Many psychological and evolutionary tendencies come into play here. I may continue this aspect of influence in a later blog. Yet, I would like to get to the point. We did not actively invite this web of influence to run its course, we simply did not have a choice in the matter. Although, as adults, later in life we do have the choice. We have the choice to de-construct the work of this web of influence and explore it thoroughly throughout our lifetime. We can actively decide for ourselves what makes sense to keep and what to throw out through our own set of rational standards under our own will and intent. Exceptionally powerful stuff! To be able to craft your mind according to your will and true intent. Very powerful concepts! I tell you this can be done, the benefits are unmatched and completely worthwhile. The quality of life this brings about is beyond the scope of comparison. Living in the now and creating how you actively participate in life is utterly amazing. I will continue further at another time. The first step is realization, pulling out from the void that it can be done.

I sort of went on a tangent here, but I just wanted to let things flow. To my select readers, please do not confuse my ramblings with New Age philosophies or self help nonsense or anything of that matter. You don't need any other device, book, program, preacher, teacher or anything of that matter, all you need is your self and your will.

When all combinations have run there course, we will all stand utterly confused...

Monday, November 30, 2009

The Amazing Cialdini

If you are having trouble getting people to say yes to your planning proposals, you don’t need to change what you are proposing, says Cialdini. Instead you need to change how you present what you have to offer.

Ask yourself
Before exploring the six steps, Cialdini wants you to think about the following four questions—the answers you give (which will be clarified in the six principles) may illuminate why you are having difficulty persuading your clients and prospects to accept the financial plan and products you have created for them.

1. Is it better to tell prospects and clients what they stand to gain if they go in your direction or what they stand to lose if they don’t?
2. If you have a product with both strengths and weaknesses, when should you present the weaknesses?
3. After someone has praised you, your efforts or your company, what is the most influential thing you can say after thank you?
4. What is the single most effective thing you can do to make yourself more effective?

Now, on to the six principles of influence that you can incorporate into any request you make with prospects or clients.

1. Principle of reciprocation. This principle is evident in every human culture, says Cialdini. The concept: “I’m obligated to give back to you what you first give to me.” People respond to this seemingly universal law that you must not take without giving in return. “You are given a moment of power after someone has thanked you, what you do with that moment is critical,” says Cialdini.

Do you see the implications for your business? How do you respond when someone thanks you for going above and beyond the call of duty? “Don’t undermine your powerful position by saying something like, ‘Oh, it was nothing; I do that all the time,’” says Cialdini. “You deserve the leverage of the influence. If you respond [like that] you’ve smacked the rule of reciprocation right out the window.” Instead, he says you should respond with, “Of course, we were glad to help. It’s what long-term partners do for one another.” Or, “Thank you. Of course, I was glad to do it; I know you would do the same for me.”

2. Principle of scarcity. The bottom line: People want more of what they can get less of. “You have to tell them that what you have to offer is unique and rare, that they can’t get it unless they move in the direction you are showing them,” says Cialdini. So, you need to talk to clients not only about what they will gain, but what they will lose as well. “People are more motivated by the idea of losing something than gaining those same things,” he adds.

3. Principle of authority. “People want to follow legitimate experts. You need to share with them your level of expertise on the topic—they can’t know that about you until you tell them,” says Cialdini. That means you can’t be embarrassed because you think you sound boastful.

According to Cialdini, it’s not enough to be knowledgeable; you need to be truthful. You can convey honesty the way the large corporations do. Before they present the strongest argument in favor of their product or service, they mention a weakness in their position. This establishes them as both powerful and honest. Immediately after admitting a weakness is when you need to deliver your strongest argument.

4. Principle of commitment and consistency. “If you want to increase the likelihood of a yes,” says Cialdini, “you need to have them write it down. People live up to what they write down.”

5. Principle of consensus. In the end, most people are followers. “We decide what we should do by looking at what others like us do in that situation,” says Cialdini. That means you need to leverage all your testimonials—provide those that are most similar to your prospects, and use clients who refer others to you as communicators for your services.

6. Principle of liking. “We like people who like us,” says Cialdini. “We say yes to people we like.” But, this is not about getting your clients to like you; instead, you need to like them more. “People want a counselor who likes them,” he adds. “That’s where they feel safe.” And when they feel safe, they say yes, again and again.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

What's up today

Today, I am simply attempting to read some great SEO articles, put up a new portal, write an article, and develop a few new blogs on my portal topics. It's always harder to do bulk work when you are enjoying the holidays with family.

A great article for those wishing to learn more about building an SEO empire check out Eli's website: It is one of the most informative websites on the topic around.

The Tiger Woods news story is a good laugh. My father in law and I had it nailed from the beginning. The details certainly don't add up; girlfriend just happens to grab a golf club on the way out the door after hearing her husband crash their SUV, then smashes out the back window and pulls him up and over the total length of the vehicle to safety. I could go on and on about the details that don't add up but I would rather eat some left-overs and enjoy a bit of conversation with the in-laws.

This is yet another great lesson to be learned: Never talk to the police

Thursday, November 26, 2009

The Holidays

One valuable lesson that can be learned from the holidays is cultivating the ability to give other folks a wide range of “slack” instead of using selective judgments to form a static perception. I find it best to cut others some slack, find the best in them, and attempt to engage them in a discussion of their interests or philosophies without any form of judgment. You’ll have a better time, I promise and you may just learn something. If your “others” have differing fundamental philosophies or flaws in character, try looking at things a different way; invert, exploring the self for ways in which you display the same psychological bias. You may just learn something. Enjoy those close to you. Happy holidays.

Welcome to the Outskirts of Nomansland

I have decided to develop a blog that will explore, share, and detail my own personal interests. It will also serve up a certain level of entertainment as I am often didactic and chuck full of contrary to status-quo beliefs. I will do my best to share interesting knowledge from a multi-diciplinary approach. I thoroughly enjoy gaining wisdom from all fields of study without regard to boundaries.

I will, however, attempt to tie everything together in order to serve a greater purpose. The undercurrent of the blog will try to strive for objectivity, while exalting the amazing power of critical thinking. There are so many brilliant minds, theories, and insights, whether past or present, out there to be assimilated by the eager life student.

Topics/Interests that will consume most of the blog's material are: Internet Marketing, SEO, Economics, Investing, Awareness cultivation, Psychology, and Life knowledge acquisition. The list may grow at my whim.

As a matter of personal integrity I will review books, ideas, products, websites, etc. with objectivity and ruthlessness. I will NEVER promote an idea, product, or website that I do not fully believe in. Never underestimate the incentive-bias of many other blog authors attempting to review books and products only to sell you their "opinion".

In my next post I will give a brief personal introduction.